What is tantric massage?
Tantric massage for lovers
Tantric Massage is an erotic, sensual experience. Surrendering to pleasure for pleasure’s sake and learning to be totally immersed in deep states of relaxation whilst building sexual energy (peaks or waves) through the body. Tantric massage is a wonderful tool to bring more pleasure, depth and intimacy into love-making, to be used as part of foreplay or simply as a time-out experience with no expectations other than to be indulged, nurtured and loved. When we learn to surrender to pleasure, we also heal and energise. Sensual touch is one of the most beautiful experiences we can give to the body, mind and soul.
Yoni Tantric massage for her!
Start by pleasuring her extremities. On the inside of her arm, make a circular movement tracing an oval shape between the wrist and the elbow to make the biggest oval possible. If one fingertip is too ticklish for her, use all your fingers or the flat of your hand and use firmer pressure. As you trace out this shape, keep your mind in the present moment, focusing on the pleasure you are feeling in your fingertips as well as the pleasure you sense she might be feeling. Be sensitive and very conscious of what you are doing. Let your focus be on pleasure; get some feedback from her as to whether she would like it softer, firmer, slower or faster. Every time she responds say, ‘thank you!’ If she requests a firmer stroke, then increase the firmness and ask, ‘firmer still?’
GOOD COMMUNICATION IS VITAL
First, it keeps you and your partner present and focused on what you are doing. Second, you may think you know what your partner likes, but you are not a mind reader so it’s best to ask. Third, it is sometimes difficult for a woman to say what she wants during sex so this gives her the opportunity to lead you to what gives her the most pleasure… excerpt from Kerry Rileys ‘Sexual Secrets for Men’